THOUGHTS moves to action, Action produces results, and with the results comes consequences for good or bad.
We need to filter our thoughts. Thoughts that trigger negative emotions. When we encounter actions of others that provoke negative thoughts which move to express actions, one then need to grab a hold of self, to control out-burst of actions that will lead to bad conclusions. Being patient with self as you ponder the action of others will lead to good conclusions on both sides. War is with those who do not see the impeding danger of their actions. Selfishness has tied itself around them and the end is not good even for those who are innocent.
The Canadian truckers protest is an example of what happens when sight is blinded, and passion over rules logic. The situation offers a reminder of the fragility of the global supply chains to and from businesses that eventually affects individuals; and of the deep interdependence of the U.S. and Canadian economies, which exchange millions in imports and exports daily.
This pandemic and the Public Health restrictions that came with it, have brought together a number of disparate movements and ideologies. And though the mandate applies to truckers crossing the U.S. border and not all truckers, “some are taking sides with the truckers’ convoy as has one Paul Aubue, a 64-year-old grandfather of a trucking company protesting the recent vaccine mandate and the vaccine passport.”
Locals who are frustrated, fed up, and at times in fear of leaving their homes are against the sustained protest. “One local who give her name as Jennifer was called “”’a dumb cunt sheep’”” for wearing a mask says, “”I’m just done with those people.””
And that is what some siding with the convoy protesting wants—fear; fear, that will deter the actions of logic to good health, and back to a thriving economy.
The government’s drastic measures are a sad one. But, at times to inject order and peace, drastic measures must be taken. The truckers’ play on words of Trudeau’s father, is shallow thinking.
Love is the thread that binds us to one another and to this world. As Ann Pratchett so eloquently writes, “The love between humans is the thing that nails us to this earth.” It is love that grounds us, gives us purpose, and shapes our journey. Torquato Tasso reminds us, “True love cannot be found where it does not exist. It cannot be denied where it does.” Love’s presence is undeniable and transformative, guiding our actions and our hearts. Yet even the deepest human love is but a reflection of a greater love—the love shown by Jesus Christ.
Still within February, as we reflect on love and the history of blacks. I reflected on the thin line between love and hate for wickedness. The same, God showed when HE bought a deluge on earth in February. He lovingly continued our existence through one family, the family of Noah. A reminder of the thin line between love and hate.
As we cherish the love we share with others, let us also remember the ultimate example of love. It is a sacrifice made not out of obligation, but out of boundless compassion and grace. Hebrews 10:12 speaks to this sacrifice. It says, “But this man offered one sacrifice for sins forever. Afterward, he sat down on the right hand of God.” When Jesus allowed His body to be nailed to the stake, He demonstrated a love so profound and selfless. This love continues to inspire and heal.
Therefore, may we strive to reflect even a fraction of that love in our own lives. We should care deeply and forgive freely. We must love unconditionally. However, we must not forsake the need to exercise justice where injustice thrives.
And it is within this reflection of love. I am sharing a reminder about a past post. Its title is WITNESSING THE FUTURE: SPACE, TRUTH, AND HUMANITY’S JOURNEY, and it was posted on 2025/11/10. I had given the reason for my not taking a picture of a sighting.
Here is what I had written with a few word changes for clarification: On October 21, 2025, in the early morning, after 5:00 a.m., the atmosphere was still very dark. I was looking through the window up at the sky as I normally do, sometimes counting the brightly visible stars. Between that time and 7:00 a.m. I witnessed something extraordinary—an object in the sky, unmoving, luminous, and unlike any aircraft I’ve observed. I did not photograph it. The truth is, I never thought of it until after the fact. I should have taken a picture. Truth is we’ve been conditioned to believe only what we can see and record. But faith once moved civilizations—before cameras, before satellites, before the internet. With further explanation given for the reason to exercise faith.
Of course, some did doubt me, but as it is written, time reveals all truths. So, here in this post, I have provided proof of the sighting seen on October of 2025. In exactly the same place, a similar sighting is seen again on February 04, 2026. It is not as bright and still unmoving. The sighting is taken at 9:55 p. m. The time is noted. I know exactly where and in what location in the sky the moon is at that time.
Proof that faith without doubt is answered in God’s time.
“Family is not an important thing. It’s everything.”” — Michael J. Fox.
FEBRUARY 16, 2026, another year here to celebrate family day. Thank you, Heavenly Father.
A day initiated by Don Getty after reflecting on his own family situation. In 1989, the throne speech announced a new February holiday named Family Day. It is known in other provinces as Louis Real Day, Heritage Day, and Islander Day. The day allows families to spend more time together.
However, the day is appreciated by most.
When we think of the word family we think of our birth parents. But family is who chooses us by adoption, or we choose them.
ANCIENT HISTORY
From the Latin verb—adoptãre, meaning to choose for oneself, take by choice or select. Specifically, to take a family.
Long before laws and agencies existed, ancient civilizations practiced adoption for social, political and familial reasons. Adopting slaves as sons has long been a Middle Eastern practice. As a result, they had inheritance rights. However, these rights were not above those of children descended naturally from the father. Ancient Rome elite frequently adopted heirs to maintain the family name, wealth and power.
We have the account of Rachel and Leah both considered the children born to Jacob by their handmaids as their own sons. These children inherited along with those born directly of Jacob’s legal wives. They were natural sons of the father. The slave girls’ children were considered the wives’ property. Rachel and Leah had property rights in these children. (Genesis 30: 1-24)
And Pharaoh’s daughter’s adoption of Moses. Men and women had equal rights under Egyptian law. Therefore, Pharaoh’s daughter exercised the right of adoption. (Exodus 2:1-10)
CURRENT HISTORY
International adoption (referred to as intercountry or transnational adoption) involves adopting a child from another country. An individual or couple from one country becomes the legal and permanent parent(s) of that child. The laws of countries vary in their willingness to allow international adoptions. Some countries have established rules and procedures for international adoption, while other countries expressly forbid it.
MAJOR ORIGIN and RECEIVING COUNTRIES of CHILDREN
According to a 2013 study, six countries (China, Ethiopia, India, South Korea, Ukraine and Vietnam) were the major origin countries for almost a decade in the period 2003-2011. With slight changes in other countries sending most children.
China has long been a major sending country in international adoption, but as of 2025 the number of international adoptions has drastically reduced to an improved Chinese economy and more restrictive laws prohibiting international adoption by non-relatives. Concerns raised over abuse.
2024 analysis found that the top 10 receiving countries from 2004 to 2021 (of countries where national data was available, ranked by the number of adoptees) were:[19]
Rank Country Total adoptions 2004-2021.
1 USA 187,578
6 Sweden 10,113
2 Italy 47,287
7 Netherlands 9,253
3 Spain 37,688
8 Germany 7,228
4 France 35,353
9 Norway 4,706
5 Canada 21,648
10 Denmark 4,623
The 2009 study found a significant concentration in adoption rates. The top five countries accounted for more than 80% of overall adoption from 1998 to 2007. The US alone accounted for around 50% of overall adoption.
ADOPTION: IMPACT ON PARENTS AND CHILD
Adoption profoundly transforms the lives of both adoptive parents and the child. The process is often lengthy and emotionally demanding, designed to ensure a nurturing environment for the child. For many children, adoption can mean losing connections to their biological families. They may lose ties to their culture and roots as well. This may lead to feelings of uncertainty and overwhelm. Yet, adoption also brings significant benefits. It offers the child stability and opportunities. It provides a supportive family foundation essential for healthy growth.
For adoptive parents, welcoming a child can bring a deep sense of purpose and fulfillment. However, the journey doesn’t end with adoption. The post-adoption period can be mentally and emotionally challenging for both parents and child. Unresolved trauma in the child may surface, and parents may face unexpected issues throughout the lifelong adoption journey.
A CELEBRATED NOTE
As we gather to celebrate Family Day, let’s cherish the bonds—whether with our birth families or adoptive ones. Let’s remember those who may feel unwelcome in their family units. We should also acknowledge those experiencing hardship. Let us hope for justice and compassion for all. Family Day is a time to honour the strength, diversity, and love that families bring into our lives.
My friends, thanks for taking the time to read this post. I wish you a fun-filled day of gathering, lots to eat and encouraging conversation. Enjoy!
If you had the power to change one law, what would it be and why? I would put in place term limits for judges 7 years of service to step down after 12 years allowing others to serve.
It’s often said, “Don’t burn the bridges you cross,” or “It’s a small world.” These sayings hold true for good reason. Life unfolds in its own timing, often beyond our understanding, and trusting this unseen order is essential. While we may make many plans, ultimately, it is a higher power that directs our steps. What we perceive as delays may actually be protection. Detours may serve as redirection. Endings often prepare us for new beginnings. Sometimes, people we haven’t seen in years reappear unexpectedly. The nature of your parting—whether joyful or awkward—depends on the circumstances. Ideally, every relationship ends amicably. Life has a way of bringing us back across bridges we once crossed. It’s much like a highway leading to an airstrip before taking flight.
The Importance of Familiarity
Navigating life can be complicated, much like following a road map. Familiarity with the route makes reaching your destination easier. The same applies to relationships. Shared memories and experiences help us recall places, events, and the nuances of those we once knew. We remember how people reacted to certain things, their likes and dislikes, and the moments we shared.
You may have heard, “Forge your way or pretend until you succeed.” However, pretending can only last so long. Eventually, the truth surfaces, and inconsistencies become apparent. This is why it’s important to leave all relationships on a friendly note.
The Authenticity of Photographs
Seasons change, and so do people. Over time, areas transform due to development, and humans evolve through experiences. As I reflected on my journey. I never imagined I would write about my life. Yet, here I am, inspired by a photograph sent by a longtime friend. It’s true—a picture tells a thousand words. Yet, when altered, it can mislead just like a falsified document.
Authenticity matters because truth leads us where it will, not necessarily where we want to go. History becomes important to know. This is especially true when crowds gather. They bask in the false light of being “right” and vilify those who refuse to join them. As Thomas Merton wisely said:
“”We desire not the truth, but rather that our lie should be proved ‘right’ and our iniquity be vindicated as ‘just.’ This is what we have done to pervert our natural, instinctive appetite for truth. No wonder we hate. No wonder we are violent.””
Indeed. Many prefer a comforting lie over the discomfort of truth, sometimes going to great lengths to keep the truth hidden. Standing firm in your truth can be challenging, but it is necessary.
The Stories We Carry
Just as photographs tell stories, so do the scars on our bodies. Each mark is a testament to our experiences. As I looked at the photograph taken years ago, before a mark appeared on my face. The memory takes me back to an apartment on Broadview Avenue in Toronto. The photographer was a student at that time. I was both partner and model.
Over time, the marks became more visible. I remember moving to another floor in the building I now occupy. On opening the balcony door, I felt something pierce my forehead. I rubbed the site and paid no further attention to a spot that remains to this day. For the next few days, I moved with a coworker’s help. From that first day. I thought the move would lead to a happier place. Instead, I endured bruises that eventually faded. However, incidents and disturbances from neighbors lingered. Parts of this story are shared in my memoir, “Until My Dying Day” by B. M. Lustol
Our appearance and attitude are shaped by our journey and experiences. Growth is not always appreciated by others, nor understood by partners. While change can be positive, not all changes are celebrated or praised by our Creator. Regardless, we are called to exercise love, justice, and kindness. We need to honor our parents. We must respect those in positions of authority and leadership.
In Closing
Truth is not always comforting; it can be rocky and unpredictable, refusing to show us what we expect. Yet we must keep walking by faith. It is the assured expectation of God’s vindication. God vindicates those who remain loyal to their truths. He is our witness. When you leave people behind, ensure it’s on a friendly note. You never know when you might need to reconnect, clarify an accusation, or resolve a situation. Leaving relationships on good terms keeps doors open. This allows truth to enter. It dispels falsehoods, even when others attempt to sow division through altered images or documents.
Thank you for taking the time to read this post. Your attention and openness to these reflections are truly appreciated. If you have thoughts or experiences to share, I welcome your perspective. Wishing you continued growth, understanding, and kindness on your journey.
Every day, we are faced with choices—decisions that shape not only our day but sometimes the course of our lives. Ideally, these choices lead to fulfillment and productivity. Yet many of us present a brave face to the world while feeling weary inside. There comes a moment when we awaken and decide to prioritize ourselves. This is a positive step. However, it can make us appear as outsiders to those who expect us to remain silent. They may also expect us to be agreeable or available for their purposes.
Removing the mask and choosing honesty with oneself is transformative. When you are true to yourself, you no longer seek constant reassurance. You learn to trust your instincts and recognize your boundaries. Instead of suppressing your feelings—which can rob you of joy and even harm your health—you respond thoughtfully. This shift brings a quiet clarity to your decisions and simplifies relationships, as you stop pretending internally. You become aligned with your true self—not perfect, not always certain, but authentic. Some may mistake this authenticity for arrogance, but in reality, it is an attitude that liberates your spirit.
WHEN PUSHED
Honesty is more than a word or a superficial act. It does not belong to those who thrive on dishonesty or manipulation. Such individuals struggle to understand sincerity, fairness, humility, and resistance to exploitation. To navigate interactions with them, emotional intelligence becomes essential. Emotional intelligence embodies sensitivity, fairness, empathy, and understanding, allowing you to respond with wisdom and care. A personal experience on February 2, 2026, I reflected on as an example. Someone tried to provoke me into reacting angrily or to manipulate my emotions for their own gain. Instead of responding impulsively, I paused. I asked the clerk to attend to another customer while I collected my composure. After assessing the situation calmly, I chose a response that reflects my values and maintains my integrity. This approach protects my well-being. It also demonstrates strength and self-awareness to others. Awareness, like personal growth, is a gradual process. Through observation and reflection, we become more attuned to ourselves and our surroundings. This heightened awareness can be challenging for others to accept. It is especially challenging in public settings. This is because it reveals truths that are not immediately visible. For those who are spiritually perceptive, this awareness is deeply examined and understood.
DIFFERENT CHALLENGES, DIFFERENT ERA
Life today is more complex than ever. The forces that seek to harm are often stronger and more cunning than the majority. They are skilled in mental manipulation and computers. It is often said that two are better than one. Even the Bible supports this idea. When one falls, the other can help them up. But when you stand alone, who is there to lift you?
I have witnessed firsthand how people can dominate others to their detriment, as the Bible describes. I write as someone engaged in a daily struggle against those who challenge every move I make. It feels like a game of chess, but the stakes are real—they seek harm, not play.
STAND FIRM
To those who, like me, are engaged in this spiritual battle, I encourage you to stand firm in your truth. Practice kindness. Trust that the wicked will eventually tire. Choose yourself and do not yield. As Viktor E. Frankl wisely said, “Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”” Yes, within that space lies our power—the power of belief that the Creator will bring justice. Patience is essential. In that space, you will find both growth and freedom. If you choose to speak out publicly, be prepared to face the consequences. These consequences may come in the form of scrutiny. They could also be other challenges.
Be aware and conscious of your environment. Your consciousness reveals self-discipline, not to overstep or go beyond your [rightful] boundaries. You are organized when somethings missing, you are aware, because it is not where it was. You have impulse control, you are not easily moved without a precise objective, and you are reliable. Others trust your word, and I may add, hopefully, your actions.
CONCLUDING THOUGHT
A social friend sent me this quote, which I am stating here because our life is a road we travel. We never stop learning until we die, unless we choose otherwise. As “We are not yet what we shall be. But we are growing toward it. The process is not yet finished, but it is going on. This is not the end. But it is the road,” said Martin Luther
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Good morning, dear ones. I woke up this morning not with Jesus on my mind, but with a vision I had. I don’t know who this post resonates with on this Sunday morning, January 18, 2026. The day that God has blessed.
Have you ever heard, “I gave you years of my life, and now you want to leave?” It’s a phrase that echoes in many relationships, especially when emotions run high. But here’s the truth: both partners invest time and energy. Sometimes, one gives more emotionally, focusing on the other’s needs and forgetting their own.
Did you know that nearly 60% of divorces among young couples happen within the first five years of marriage? The reasons often stem from unmet needs, poor communication, and emotional imbalances.
Life is about learning and growing together—whether you choose to cohabit or marry. Balance is key. Be honest, communicate openly, and support each other. Remember, the heart can be unpredictable—even to its owner. Don’t play games with emotions; hurt can lead to actions you’ll regret.
When anger whispers revenge, don’t listen. Stay calm. Sometimes, it’s best not to vent to friends right away. Instead, seek wisdom—Proverbs 18:3 and Micah 7:8 remind us where not to put faith. Rather, in God and trust that healing will come.
Relationships shape who we are. When things get tough, step back and focus on your needs, health, finances, and dreams. You’re the captain of your own ship—don’t let anyone steer you off course or rob you of your self-worth. You are the captain of your ship. Your soul is not that of the other person you had invested time with. It was a journey to be educated. Don’t allow him or her to destroy it and lose God’s favour.
Everyone fails at something or with someone. And it is in failure that we become wiser. Good judgment comes from experience, and experience often comes from poor judgment.
Final thought
It takes two to tango. And one of maturity expresses honesty at all times. Stay strong, stay honest, and remember: you have the power to create a lasting love. Thank you for reading, and do subscribe to my blog. Have a wonderful day!
Let’s face it: the world of shopping has changed dramatically. Those days are gone when a simple purchase meant hours spent wandering store aisles. Shoppers hunted for that perfect outfit, appliance, or accessory. Today, with just a few clicks, you can browse every department imaginable. You can fulfill your desires in under an hour. There’s no need to brave the crowds or sacrifice an entire afternoon. In fact, recent studies show that over 76% of consumers now prefer online shopping for its convenience and speed.
Two weeks before Christmas, I decided to treat myself—a reward for surviving a year of mental fatigue. My mission: replace an entertainment unit that refused to cooperate. The tape recorder was mysteriously sabotaged by the “unseen ghost” of technology. Of course, I also needed a pair of boots to brave the winter chill. According to industry data, the holiday season accounts for nearly 30% of annual online retail sales. It is one of the busiest times for digital shoppers everywhere.
But as I soon discovered, shopping online during the holidays is not for the faint of heart. My experience ranged from staggered deliveries to puzzling product manuals. The quest for the perfect fit added to the whirlwind of anticipation and frustration. Ultimately, it led to business-like decision-making. So, get ready, my friends, as I take you through the highs and lows of my online shopping adventure. I am armed with stats and stories. Plus, I have a dash of humour.
The Search – Clicking Through Choices
The adventure began with a clear mission. I needed to replace my entertainment unit and tape recorder. Additionally, I aimed to purchase a pair of earphones for my phone and find the perfect pair of winter boots. But as any online shopper knows, the digital marketplace is a labyrinth. With over 2.14 billion people shopping online globally, competition for the best deals is fierce, and options are endless.
I dove into my favorite shopping site, armed with determination and a cup of tea. The entertainment unit was easy enough to spot, but the tape recorder. That was a different beast. Modern models seemed to require a computer science degree just to operate. I scrolled, filtered, and compared. I was aware that 70% of shoppers compare prices across at least three platforms before making a purchase. The boots, meanwhile, presented a classic online dilemma: sizing. 30% of online apparel returns are due to incorrect fit, and I was determined not to become another statistic.
After a whirlwind of tabs and reviews, I made my selections, feeling both triumphant and slightly anxious. Would these products live up to their online promise? Only time—and delivery—would tell.
Decision-Making – Reviews, Ratings, and Realities
With my virtual cart loaded, it was time to make some decisions. Price was not a factor, but the reviews and delivery times were. According to recent surveys, 88% of consumers trust online reviews as much as personal recommendations. I pored over feedback from fellow shoppers, searching for clues about product quality and reliability.
The entertainment unit had glowing reviews. The tape recorder received mixed feedback. Opinions about the boots were divided. I weighed the pros and cons, considered the return policies, and finally hit “Buy Now.” The checkout process was smooth. However, I noticed the abundance of upsells and add-ons. It’s no wonder that cart abandonment rates hover around 70% globally.
The Purchase – Checkout and Delivery Drama
The thrill of purchase quickly gave way to the waiting game. My items arrived on different days, each delivery bringing its own set of surprises. The entertainment unit was perfect, but the tape recorder left me scratching my head. The manual suggested I needed to visit a special website for the diskette instructions. This was a far cry from the simple, button-operated device I’d hoped for.
The boots, meanwhile, were a lesson in online shopping humility. Despite previous success with shoe purchases, neither pair fit as expected. I had to cancel and reorder, hoping for a better outcome. It’s a common tale returns and exchanges account for nearly 20% of all online purchases, with footwear leading the pack.
Post-Purchase Reflections: Lessons in Shopping, Strategy, and a Dash of Humor
After the whirlwind of online shopping, I took a moment to reflect on my recent purchases. The entertainment unit? A clear victory! The tape recorder? Let’s call it a strategic compromise. And the boots—well, those were a masterclass in patience and persistence.
Fast shipping was a definite win. It’s no surprise. Industry data shows that 60% of shoppers are more likely to buy again when delivery is quick. Speed matters!
But here’s the real takeaway: online shopping is a delightful blend of convenience and challenge. It demands optimism, a healthy dose of skepticism, and the flexibility to adapt when things don’t go as planned. When my reorder arrived, I eagerly tried on both boots. One fit was almost perfect, but the other… let’s just say my right foot had a different opinion.
Saturday’s Congregation: Boots, Blessings, and Bus Schedules
The left foot is a wider fit than the right.
To celebrate my new winter boots, I decided their first outing would be to the Kingdom Hall. Of course, no adventure is complete without a neighborly interruption—this time, a mystery about a doll left at her door. After a quick clarification (and a friendly “Have a great day!”), I was off—only to find the buses weren’t running my way. A taxi saved the day, but I arrived just in time for the closing remarks of the Public Talk.
The Watch Tower session was a poignant reminder of life’s changes, challenges, and the wisdom that comes with age. As the articles were read, my new boots began to feel less like a blessing. They started to feel more like a sauna for my feet. By the end, I was ready to bid farewell to both the congregation and the boots.
A Word to the Wise (and the Forces at Play)
Returning the boots became a mission. Instead of heading straight home, I made a quick stop for toothpaste—a subtle, diplomatic message to the universe. Once home, I investigated the boots and discovered the culprit: the left boot was slightly wider than the right. Mystery solved! Unfortunately, since they’d been worn, returning them might be a challenge. Another stressful situation with someone on the production line that the forces are moving to frustrate my life.
Business Insight – The E-Commerce Boom
My personal adventure is just one story in the vast tapestry of global e-commerce. The numbers speak for themselves: global online sales are projected to reach $8.1 trillion by 2026. Businesses are investing heavily in user experience, logistics, and customer service to keep pace with ever-rising expectations.
For shoppers, the message is clear: embrace the digital revolution but stay savvy. Read the reviews, check the sizing charts, and don’t be afraid to return what doesn’t work. After all, in the world of online shopping, the customer truly is king—and the stats prove it.
Stress on Our Brain – The Cost of Immaturity
My shopping adventures and daily interactions have ended. It was important to recognize the toll that stress and immaturity can take on our well-being. The brain, our personal storehouse of resilience and vitality, is both robust and fragile. Just as a store eventually runs out of products and must close shop, our minds too need rest and replenishment. According to health studies, chronic stress affects nearly 77% of adults, leading to emotional exhaustion and physical symptoms.
Small conflicts and frustrations accumulate over time. Whether from a botched online purchase or a heated debate, they send signals to our nervous system. If we ignore these signs and continue unchecked, the damage can become difficult, if not impossible, to repair. Calming down after stress is very challenging. The brain must exert extra effort to heal the areas most affected by pain and anxiety.
The Impact of Immature Actions
We’ve all encountered individuals who, despite initial attraction or promise, reveal a mindset stuck in childish patterns. They debate every word and are unable to discern right from wrong. They perpetuate conflict. As much as we may wish to help or change them, true growth only comes from within. Research shows that immature behavior in adults contributes to increased workplace conflict. It also reduces team productivity by up to 40%.
This mental immaturity often leads to wars, arguments, and ongoing strife. It causes harm to others. It also causes harm to ourselves. Without balance and self-awareness, the damage can ripple through relationships, communities, and even our own sense of purpose.
A Business Perspective on Personality Traits
We are all inheritors of certain personality traits, and understanding them is key to personal and professional growth:
Narcissism: Reflects your self-image, confidence, and need for recognition. High awareness of this trait can help you manage relationships and ambition more effectively.
Machiavellianism: Measures your strategic thinking, pragmatism, and ability to influence. Recognizing this tendency allows you to use your ambition wisely without hurting others.
Psychopathy: Looks at impulsivity, emotional depth, and risk-taking behavior. Understanding this trait can help you improve decision-making and emotional control in critical moments.
The Call for Maturity and Mindfulness
As I close this journey, the message is clear. Whether shopping online or navigating life’s challenges, maturity and mindfulness are essential. The choices we make—big or small—shape not only our own wellbeing but also the world around us. We can avoid the pitfalls of immaturity by recognizing our tendencies and managing stress. By striving for growth, we build a more balanced, resilient future.
Ready to turn your own shopping adventures into success stories? Embrace the journey—research your purchases, celebrate the wins, and don’t be afraid to return what doesn’t fit (literally or figuratively)! Share your own lessons learned, and let’s keep the conversation—and the laughter—going. Your next great find is just a click away!
Thanks for spending time with me. Until my next post, have yourselves a peaceful day.
New Year’s Day greeted me with an unusual quiet. When I stepped outside to feed the birds, not one was in sight. The stillness felt almost symbolic—like the calm before a storm. I went back inside and decided it was a day best spent at home.
As I reflected on the quiet, a moment in the Bible came to mind. It was when Jesus’ disciples asked about the signs of the last days. The more I thought about it, the more I realized Scripture has left us many clues. These are breadcrumbs of clarity scattered throughout its pages.
I considered the early calendars. Genesis chapters seven and eight point to a year that began in what we now call February. The Roman calendar, reformed by Julius Caesar in 46 BC, originally had ten months. After Jerusalem fell in 70 AD and the Jews were scattered, the Roman Empire imposed the Julian calendar. But even that system didn’t align perfectly with the seasons. To understand why the Jewish New Year falls between September and October, one must look at their original calendar. In that calendar, the first month—called Abib or Nisan—aligned with the lunar cycle and agricultural seasons. This timing roughly corresponds to March. Jesus’ words in Mark 13 indicate signs. Revelation 21 talks about promised changes. Ecclesiastes 1:10-11 offers timeless reflections. The signs have always been there.
People, too, leave signs—small gestures, habits, and contradictions that reveal what they truly feel or fear. As an author, I’ve learned this through my own writing. Some speak from truth, but many speak from survival, ego, or fear. The overly kind may be terrified of rejection. The strong may be quietly falling apart, as I learned from reading my late sister’s diary. Often, people aren’t hiding from us—they’re hiding from themselves. The masks they wear aren’t lies but survival tools, shaped by a world that punishes honesty and rewards polished illusions.
If you pay attention, repeated habits—avoidance, overworking, flirtation, emotional distance—are confessions in disguise. When you learn to listen to patterns rather than words, truth reveals itself long before it’s spoken. And once you see beyond the mask, empathy replaces judgment, and honesty becomes easier to practice.
What irritates us in others’ dishonesty, arrogance, and lack of self-control often reflects something within ourselves. So, stand for truth. Speak against violence. With age comes the wisdom to see what younger minds frequently miss. We begin to understand people’s indifference, their wounds, and the parts of themselves they abandoned long ago. Sometimes, when someone attacks you without cause, it’s because they see something in you they admire. They believe they cannot embody this admirable trait.
Of course, aging also reminds us that strength fades. Wisdom, then, is knowing when to step forward—and when to gracefully bow out. Ideally, before your joints file an official complaint.
2026, I am here hoping the year has found you, my readers, experiencing renewed hope. Thank you for reading.
As I reflect on the year about to end, I would like to thank everyone on WordPress. Your posts have enlightened and encouraged me.
Each of us are gifted in our own way, as First Corinthians 7:7 has stated. We share our experiences, ideas, and encouragement. This helps each other to heal and to grow. It allows us to move forward, as Corinthians 14:26 states. I am grateful and appreciative. I especially thank a few of you. Your posts have educated me. They have encouraged me and brought tears of laughter to my eyes.
Ms. Angera Muses, whose historical posts on IDEA NEEDS COLLECTIVE THOUGHTS, DON’T TELL THEM, SHOW THEM, ALWAYS A WAY IF YOU ARE COMMITTED, offer encouragement. They inspire you to move forward, believing in yourself and your dreams despite others’ negative opinions. Thank you.
Mr. Mitch Teemely, whose posts of encouragement and laughter from life experiences, uplifted my days. Thank you.
Mr. Sebastian Stead, whose photographs have taken me to places I never thought of being. Thank you.
Ms. Grace Blakiston, whose personal shares move me to reflect on my own family gatherings and love affairs. Thank you.
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As I look at the time remaining before the start of a new year. The clock on the desk also needs to be set to reflect the change of the season. It reminds me that as humans, we too must reset. We need to reset our minds on how we will approach and perform in the new year.
There’s so much uncertainty. Uncertainty of wars, people’s mental state to adapt, unaffordable housing, high cost of food, and scarcity of jobs. These uncertainties have made me fearful. They do anxiously as I prepare to face a new year. The year is beginning more advanced than the previous one. I do wonder what disastrous effect the good intention of AI creation will have on humanity.
Time keeps on ticking, and it moves forward. Very soon, you and I will welcome the beginning of a new chapter of twelve. This is in a book of three hundred and sixty-five days. My wish is to be here with everyone. We will continue to encourage, enlighten, and uplift one another.
To everything there is a season. There is a time to every purpose under the heaven. A time to be born, and a time to die. A time to plant, and a time to reap.
–Old Testament, Ecclesiastes, 3:1-8
Time goes, you say? Ah no! Alas, Time stays, we go. -Austin Dobson, The Paradox of Time
Catch then, oh catch the transient hour; Improve each moment as it flies! Life’s a short Summer, man a flower; He dies—alas! How soon he dies. -Samuel Johnson, Winter: An Ode
Alas! How swift the moments fly! How flash the years along! Scarce here, yet gone already by, The burden of a song. Observe childhood, youth, and manhood pass. Witness age with a furrowed brow. Time was—Time shall be. Drain the glass. But where in Time is now? -John Quincy Adams, The Hourglass.
Dreams are expressions of the spiritual realm and a bridge between the tangible and the intangible. They are the beginnings of realities. They reflect our past truths, illusions, and wild fantasies. They also mirror anticipations, irrational thoughts, experiences, and even telepathic visions. Dreams can encourage us, warn us, or reveal a direction we are taking that may not be worthwhile.
It is important to become aware of the spiritual world. Just as there are people in the physical world who do not have your best interest at heart. So it is in the spiritual world.
A true story from a Facebook friend inspired this post. One day, she noticed a single weed growing through the artificial grass she had laid in her yard. Her interpretation was that sometimes, where one’s growth begins is not necessarily where one is meant to remain. Insightful indeed — but there is even more to that moment.
Sometimes, growth among those who do not understand you becomes a disadvantage. Yet life is for each of us to learn as we grow. From that one “odd” sprout, those around it can learn how to adapt and survive. Before artificial grass is laid, the soil is usually tilled. That lone seed had been waiting beneath the surface. When conditions aligned, it sprouted — deceived by its environment yet still determined to grow.
This brings me to the last days. Jesus Christ foretold that apostasy would not overtake the entire body of Christians. The true, loyal ones would be like wheat among weeds, as described in Matthew 13. When the disciples asked if they should pull up the weeds, Jesus said no. He advised against it, lest the wheat be uprooted with them. Growth happens even in environments that seem unfavorable, and God allows certain things for our development.
This returns us to dreams.
Sometimes our dreams reveal themselves in our waking life. I remember my indoor plant — Golden Devil’s Ivy — which grows even in harsh conditions. When my cousin Petal died, a mushroom appeared in the pot for the first time in years. I thought it was a sign. Later, when my Aunt Ismay passed, I found a long black strand of hair in my sink that wasn’t mine. Again, I thought it was a sign — or someone had entered my apartment.
Years later, with clarity and spiritual maturity, I understood whose sign it was. It certainly was not from the true God. When God gives a sign, it is confirmed, repeated, and aligned with His character. The mushroom never returned after I removed it. This is a reminder that the dead do not speak to the living, as Ecclesiastes 9:5 states. Satan, a deceiver from the beginning, continues to deceive today. Friends, do not be misled or mislead others. Know the world you live in. Be aware of your surroundings and the people you associate with.
INTERPRETATION AND MIRACLES
Just as my friend sought clarity about her weed, I sought clarity about mushrooms. Mushrooms do not grow from seeds; they reproduce through microscopic spores carried by wind, water, or animals. When these spores land in the right environment, they form mycelium. This is the hidden body of the fungus. It eventually produces mushrooms.
Now consider this spiritually: Plants grow and decay. In dreams, plants often symbolize life and death, rebirth, and progression. Something in your life may be changing. And from the beginning, God has used plant growth as a sign.
This brings us to the miracles.
In the days of Moses, God used a miraculous sign to reveal who He had chosen. The leaders of each tribe placed their staffs before the Ark. By morning, Aaron’s staff — a dead piece of wood — had sprouted, budded, blossomed, and even produced almonds. This was God’s unmistakable sign of approval, life emerging where life should not have been. A divine confirmation.
So yes — plant growth can symbolize divine favor, new beginnings, or the unfolding of God’s purpose.
Share this post with someone who may be grieving this season. They may be misled into thinking their loved one is communicating with them through signs. Help them understand the difference between divine reassurance and spiritual deception.
Thank you for reading. Have a safe and meaningful holiday wherever you go.
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