Good morning, dear ones. I woke up this morning not with Jesus on my mind, but with a vision I had. I don’t know who this post resonates with on this Sunday morning, January 18, 2026. The day that God has blessed.
Have you ever heard, “I gave you years of my life, and now you want to leave?” It’s a phrase that echoes in many relationships, especially when emotions run high. But here’s the truth: both partners invest time and energy. Sometimes, one gives more emotionally, focusing on the other’s needs and forgetting their own.
Did you know that nearly 60% of divorces among young couples happen within the first five years of marriage? The reasons often stem from unmet needs, poor communication, and emotional imbalances.
Life is about learning and growing together—whether you choose to cohabit or marry. Balance is key. Be honest, communicate openly, and support each other. Remember, the heart can be unpredictable—even to its owner. Don’t play games with emotions; hurt can lead to actions you’ll regret.
When anger whispers revenge, don’t listen. Stay calm. Sometimes, it’s best not to vent to friends right away. Instead, seek wisdom—Proverbs 18:3 and Micah 7:8 remind us where not to put faith. Rather, in God and trust that healing will come.
Relationships shape who we are. When things get tough, step back and focus on your needs, health, finances, and dreams. You’re the captain of your own ship—don’t let anyone steer you off course or rob you of your self-worth. You are the captain of your ship. Your soul is not that of the other person you had invested time with. It was a journey to be educated. Don’t allow him or her to destroy it and lose God’s favour.
Everyone fails at something or with someone. And it is in failure that we become wiser. Good judgment comes from experience, and experience often comes from poor judgment.
Final thought
It takes two to tango. And one of maturity expresses honesty at all times. Stay strong, stay honest, and remember: you have the power to create a lasting love. Thank you for reading, and do subscribe to my blog. Have a wonderful day!
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