SPRING IS THE BEGINNING OF WEDDING BELLS.
MARRIAGE…it is a beautiful union of two individuals who genuinely love each other.
Before you say I do, get to know each other as much as possible during the dating period. During marriage, both men and women are anxious for the things of the world. Paul wrote on how each may gain the approval of the other. This scripture is still true to this day.
HOLDING IT TOGETHER
A house or an apartment is not a home when there’s no one there. Being there for each other will call for strength in the days we are now living. Keeping things together calls for some financial wealth. Due to some racist attitudes and political bias, those in hiring positions cause undue stress on job seekers. This stress affects those trying to fulfill family responsibilities or assist with household financial needs. Moving one or both, to start their own business using the skills they have. If this is the case, listen to each other’s ideas. Present the advantages versus the disadvantages, discuss the expenses, and your combined financial assets before your move.
Keep in mind it is not unusual to find women of today exhibiting more of a masculine attitude. This may be due to her upbringing having to carry the burden of the parents’ responsibilities. So, in adulthood, the take-charge attitude is seen as more dominant within her marriage. The man’s upbringing may be the same. This is why it is very important, before saying, I do take you as my wife or husband, that a discussion on as many topics is done. Each with an understanding of what they will need to work on. Keeping in mind that it will not be easy. Marriage is a give and take. As an example, there will be times of anger when one is forced to speak. That’s the time one is taking.
The most important thing in all relationships is the acknowledgement of God. Trust in Him who performed the first marriage. With His guidance, your relationship or marriage will always be at peace. For it is written: You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You. Peace, he trusts in you. -Isaiah 26:3.
Consider your responsibility in marriage. Think of it as having God as the mediator between you and your partner. This mediator is God and His word. His words will relieve the stressful situations most marriages have to endure these days. Yes, by looking into His words and praying, He will guide you.
Please read me, for what I am about to write, it is of importance. We are living at a time when the spirit forces are very active. One may hear a whisper in a dream. Awake to see the reality of what was seen in a dream occurring before your very eyes, or in some cases hear of it. Do investigate. Not all things are real, and not all things heard are true. All these things happened in the days of Jesus. Today, technology is more advanced and people are more wicked than in those days. Peace among us involves communication and loving kindness. The bible did warn of this so that we would be prepared to stand firm for Jehovah’s kingdom. A world prepared for us to inhabit.
My entry, your entry, and our entry depend on obedience to God’s counsel. They also depend on mutual respect. We must exercise our rights in a fair and balanced manner. Additionally, love for each other is crucial.
So, before you say, “I do take this woman or man to be my wedded partner,” be sure you have resolved in your heart that marriage is what you truly want.
Marriage is a serious commitment to each other. It is not a game, to play with each other as if a toy. Both individuals are humans made of flesh and blood, exhibiting emotions, thoughts, intuition, and sensation. All of which need each other to nurture, care, and receive attention.
May your days be happy with the man or woman of your choosing. Remember to be spontaneous and creative. Laughter is good for the soul. Laugh with and at each other, funny words or deeds.
Some Bridal shops to check out for your big day.
Better The End 