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Understanding Family Beyond Blood Ties

FAMILIES…families are not just our immediate blood relatives. Families consist of close friends/ or friends and those you associate with regularly, once love prevails. The word extends because of our spiritual connection. It also includes those with whom we have a close psychological connection over the years.

I live in an apartment building. Over the years, I eventually ignored the game played on me by those above and next to my unit. I became wise to their actions in greater attempt that causes me to speak out as if a person mentally insane. I had fallen into their manipulated game. They wanted others to perceive me as they dictated. I had delivered.

Over the years, I hoped their actions would stop. Unfortunately, logic fails to dismantle madness no matter how one tries. For example, the one whose mental faculty is in tack and knows what he or she wants to accomplish, so it is with those gone mad. The difference is that madness does not know right from wrong.

My observations cause me to pay more than the usual attention to my life from what they were attempting to do. I had already lost privacy on my electronics as did my movement within my unit. I had nothing more to lose except my life. Therefore, I hope that through my written work and in my speaking , it will behoove some of you to action.

Wisdom and Understanding are essential. One without the other can damage others, as it will to oneself at some point in one’s life.

Today, more than ever, there is so much information that individuals can find to educate themselves that the word ‘don’t know’ will be seldom used amongst those who live to learn. Anyone without knowledge can search the Internet, YouTube, and books to find the required subject knowledge.

This scripture, found in Ecclesiastes 12, verse 12, is proving to be true not only for books but also for the many written programs available today. If we are not careful, our minds will become overloaded with information, sending some of us mentally insane, as it has already done to some. Balance is the key.

Someone called me the other day regarding a link I sent to them. I was in pain when the call came in. I did not want to answer, as anyone knows, when the body is in pain, the last thing you need is someone bothering you, especially with negative comments. After I hung up, I replayed our conversation. Because I was in so much pain, I ended the conversation and in writing this piece, wished I had called her attention to the scriptures mentioned below. Sometimes pain causes loss of thoughts

I am a person who loves to read and listen to what others have to say on topics of interest, or on a topic that reminds me of conversations with others.

A link that enlightens us about our transformation in life and after death, according to the speaker’s experience, out of care, and for the individual better understanding of the force that moves us, I thought of sharing. More profoundly, some of the speaker’s words resonated with my personal experience. Spiritual experiences were given as I still understand my being.

Many of you may have read Until My Dying Day by B.M. Lustol, published by Dorrance Publishing Company. That memoir speaks about the writer’s spiritual journey. So, when I picked up the phone and inquired about her health, the first thing out of her mouth was not to send her anything like what I did. Her words were like another stone my enemies were throwing at me.

I expected kindness, not jealousy, heard in her voice. The person whom I speak is my sister. The book includes chapters on our interactions and my observations of her life.

Books are a passageway of getting to know others, and so are podcasts of thoughts expressed by certain individuals on YouTube.

The Bible presents various events described in Psalms chapter 78, detailing interactions between Jehovah and his people, who did not accept him. They did not put faith in him nor trust salvation by him. They had become backward in direction and not forward. Some people were unafraid then, and they remain so today. I guess you could say this is due to lack of knowledge of God. His acts of forgiveness, graciousness, chastisement, a God merciful, slow to anger and abundant in loving kindness. A God who is patient because he does not want to destroy the one he created for a purpose, but one who will exercise justice in his own time, should be feared and respected.

Some individuals have reported instances of kindness and will share their experiences such as in a podcast or books.

Jehovah is a God of the living and not of the dead. Although faithful ones in the past have died, today they speak through faithful ones; those who have come to have accurate knowledge of Him and his requirements. Experiences of such ones related are spiritual guidance for lovers of Jehovah.

Those who are among the living are to advance in knowledge, for when we die, there is no further room for knowledge; we go to sleep to rise again at the sound of his call.

In the meantime, our experiences encourage those who listen to gain strength in the face of adversity, to get up and move forward. Experiences tell, enlighten our knowledge, and let us know there is more this life has to offer through our interaction with others.

First Corinthians, chapter fourteen, verse one, tells us to pursue love, yet keep seeking spiritual gifts, preferably that you may prophesy. And in Chapter Twelve of the same book, it talks about the gifts we each have, gifted by the Holy Spirit. Allowing us to see that wisdom is acquired through association with others spiritually or religiously inclined.

Hear again, not all teachings are beneficial for the soul, especially from those who do not know God. One reason the Bible was preserved down to this day. Another reason is that we are given a conscience to distinguish between right and wrong.

Jehovah hears and sees his peoples’ cries. Was there a reason behind Jehovah’s act of language separation? Of course. His angels spoke different languages. In his image we were created. And our existence he forward through languages the desire to live to learn. He himself referred to us as gods. Yes, through the angels’ reports he is confirmed of our actions on this planet.

The Bible, a book of our ancestors’ struggles, given prophecies, jealousies, love, betrayals, deceptions, and Jehovah’s wars, accepted morals and principles are all there for our guidance into his promised New World. The Bible’s content of reminders is for us to inculcate into our hearts and minds so as not to forget where we come from as we move forward, respecting Him, the one who created and is capable of our existence.

Therefore, to my dear sister, I believe in, I love God, and choose to walk in his way.

To all my readers, may you have Peace.

For additional reading and insight, follow the link and information below.

2 Timothy 2:22, Ecclesiastes 12:14.

https://youtu.be/wjs06y8vRZY?si=0BOGrFHIJ-vzkiWo

Transform Your Mind: Navigating the Internet’s Chaos

Recently I was surfing the internet. In my opinion, it is a war zone of traffic. I had mapped out my destination before logging in. Liken to getting into a car and starting the engine. I logged in to begin my journey. Before long, my curiosity lured me off track. I was drawn in by sites with provocative and not so lewd advertisements. I went from one site to the next. Some had positive messages that enhanced my intellect. Others put a smile on my face or made me laugh out loud with their comical content.

The anger seen is out of control. It took me back to the Bible’s account in Genesis 11:7-9. That was when Jehovah materialized Himself and visited our world that had gone out of control. I was reminded of that account. I was also brought back to the reality of our mental state as a nation globally. People on a global scale whose behavior is brutally competitive and selfishly aggressive actions and comments towards others are enough to cause some to end their lives.

There’s a saying that when a finger is pointed at someone, nine are pointed back at you. That statement is long forgotten, as the war on the internet is coming from a place of hurt, that states: I don’t care. Do you?

Well, it seems that many do care. However, they are confused. Their actions come from a place of hurt in innocence, and they speak unaware of a mind psychologically troubled. People are confused to the point that respect is lost. This respect is lost from actions seen by those who dispense law and order. It extends to those who are the leaders of a country and to the churches that most look to for their spiritual upbuilding.

Be aware of the player’s move and adjust your attitude.

This brings me to mention our youths. What is the image, the vision of the world we are building for our young ones when they hear vulgarity and see the disrespect given to others? I beg to ask the question: Is it love or hate? A show of wit and courage? Or am I living for today, for who knows if I’ll see tomorrow?

The world needs a transformation of minds. It starts with (each one) you and me, committing ourselves.

It will call for strength, as it will be a long journey. A journey that will call for self-control as each navigates the road of circumstances that you will be led to. Situations that will be manipulated will call for patience. And eyes that are not deceived by appearances. For the one wise, he is the one who will look past appearances to the expression of words.

Words move our emotions, for better or worse. Appreciating the revelation of what was spoken requires meditation.

When Jesus had it recorded in Colossians 3:5, telling us to deaden our body members that are upon the earth as respect fornication, uncleanness, sexual appetite, hurtful desires, and covetousness, which is idolatry. In verse seven the apostle Paul wrote: You once walked in those very things. You used to live in them.

None of us are without sinful desires of words or deeds.

We need to meditate on the Bible’s counsel of morals to transform our minds. This transformation will, in turn, transform our bodies. The stories of our ancestors that shed light on our actions.

There is no doubt that changes need to be implemented. Doing so will eliminate the stress that most people feel or are under regardless of power or position.

It is time that those consumed by anger take a step back and rethink their action/s. For actions taken in anger rarely benefit the doer.

As an example of a trouble mind. Take the recent news of Elon Musk’s Tesla cars being set a fire. One man’s anger is not logical, that by causing another’s financial hardship, his own worsens. Musk’s presence in the White House whose actions are out of love for country. I can hear the sighs from some of you who just read that sentence. Seriously, logic should tell you, it is not about filling his pocket with (the thinking of a majority), with the monies saved. It is about a country avoiding a deficit. The deficit could become so large it outnumbers the entire United States of America. Only those with money will not care about the compensation due to each citizen when retired or about to retire in a few years, or those crippled in one capacity or the other.

We need a transformation of minds; only then the stress we inflict on others will stop. Be kind to self. Do unto others as you would like done to you, were the tables turn.

None of us can avoid God’s wrath. He allows all things under the sun to take place for a time. This time allows each to transform their personality into a better person.

Now’s the time!

Please follow the link below to adapt principles so nothing can affect you. Learn how having insight into our being will significantly change our actions. Be sure to leave a comment. I would really like to hear your point of view on both links.

www.HumanCondition.com https://youtu.be/0ChMzw8DU5E?si=35vGTUnyYDR0jh8

RUMORS OF WAR

LOVE OR HATE

When we see or hear the word ‘Breaking News,’ our ears become attentive to hear what it is. Our eyes also open a bit wider and focus on seeing what it is or who is being spoken of. As of lately there have been much breaking news that calls for attention.

For a beginner, Trump’s imposed tariffs has seen the stock market plummet.

The Wall Street Journal has called for Donald Trump to be sued to prevent tariffs being imposed on Canada and Mexico. The newspaper’s editorial board wrote in very blunt terms that Trump did not have the power to order the tariffs without Congressional approval. Yet he did.

Well, Canada will not sit down like Ukraine and accept such disrespect. It takes one to listen before responding, even if the other has the upper hand. Hooray to Mr. Ford for working alongside Trudeau’s encouragement for Canadians to stand and fight for the economy’s sovereignty. The way Democracy should work. “Until the threat of tariffs is gone for good, Ontario won’t back down. We’ll stand strong, use every tool in our toolkit, and do whatever it takes to protect Ontarians,” insisted Mr. Dogg Ford, whose 25% export on electricity tariffs went full speed ahead today, March 11, 2025.

The Chinese investor’s secret stakes in Elon Musk’s private companies raised concerns about Beijing’s influence in American politics. With Musk’s involvement, do Americans have cause for concern? You bet (we) all do. What is going on in the States will affect Canadians—we are business partners.

And on February 28, 2025. Musk urges retired air traffic controllers to resume work, citing a shortage of staff. Is he for real? When a person retires, it’s because the body has reached a physical level of strain. This requires a person to slow down or completely retire from the workforce in the future. Musk must have a strategic financial package in his thoughts when requesting a return.

Snoop Dogg Expands Marijuana Empire Again. Old but current news. According to the press members, the new line of Blunts delivers a slow and smooth burn. I can only imagine what went on backstage with the press members to express such words of invitation.

As Snoop confirmed, ‘“I’ve been rolling Blunts for decades, so I know what it takes to make them perfect.’” Snoop has remained a cultural icon in the cannabis community as the drug has grown more mainstream, and he’s referenced marijuana in songs and other performances for decades

It questions President Trump’s extended invitation to attend the inauguration ball. Then, he signed an executive order declaring English the official language of the United States, which has some critics scratching their heads as to why they cast a vote. This reverses a policy from the Clinton administration.

And that was not enough to stop there. The New York Times publishes the list of words deemed banned by the Trump administration agencies (https://lnkd.in/eOJqT2Wq)

What will remain in the United States regarding the capacity to think? Is there an underlining suggestion from Mr. Vance statement, “I want to have more babies in the White House?” I am telling you all that Mr. Trump and some members of his administration are on a slow, smooth burn that will drag the country into madness, which will only lead to more division within households and business relationships.

“The order, signed a few weeks ago, gives federal agencies and organizations receiving federal funds the autonomy to decide whether to continue offering services and documents in languages other than English.”

‘”While the White House argues that this move ‘”promotes unity, establishes efficiency in government operations, and creates a pathway for civic engagement,”‘ critics view it as a divisive tactic fueling fear and hindering access to essential services and democratic participation. ‘”Establishing English as the official language will not only streamline communication but also reinforce shared national values, and create a more cohesive and efficient society,'” the order said.'”

Who says Trump is not god-fearing? Apparently, he is undoing what God did in the beginning recorded at Genesis 11. In that city, God named Babel. There, God confused the language of all that scattered them from there over the entire face of the earth.

We just need to exercise patience. Rome was not built in a day. It is written that one needs to keep his enemy close to him. Musk, Perhaps? The man has some excellent ideas. Clearing the frauds that were going on will indeed save money. He promised to sack only those who were not doing their job, provide benefits to the unemployed, and deal with Medicare fairly. However, some will be hurt by the move. Canada ought to take a page from their policy.

Benjamin Franklin once wrote: Tell me, and I forget. Teach me, and I remember. Involve me, and I learn.

DRUG’S DANGER

Cannabis impairs psychomotor performance in a wide variety of tasks, such as motor coordination and operative tasks of many types. Developing respiratory issues such as significant airway inflammation, increased airway resistance, lung hyperinflation, and chronic bronchitis. It causes major depression, post-traumatic stress disorder or generalized anxiety disorder, and psychiatric disorder. As well as cognitive impairments.

THE USE

Whether frequent, the risk of developing schizophrenia or other psychoses in people who are predisposed to these conditions is confirmed.

Regular use increases the risk of developing a social anxiety disorder. As it increases depression and suicidal feelings.

THE ADVANTAGES

The use of Cannabis or marijuana is known to stimulate creativity. They can be used for medicinal reasons such as ease of physical pain and as a sleep aid.

WORD MEANINGS

Psychosis is a collection of symptoms that causes a person to lose touch with reality. It is often a symptom of schizophrenia, but other conditions can trigger psychosis to occur.

Schizophrenia is a mental health condition that leads to changes in how a person thinks, feels, and behaves. Anyone can develop psychosis at some point in their life. Causes include medications, mental health conditions, dementia, and drug or alcohol misuse.

WARNING SIGNS

Many psychosis events are triggered by fear or anxiety. If a person exhibits behavior such as hurried, slowed, or nonsensical speech, they may have attention, concentration, or memory issues. They might also frequently change topics. This mental state can be triggered by being abused or by tragic situations. Drugs or alcohol abuse, or physical injuries. The person needs to see a medical professional.

CHOICES

To each one his choice. Choose wisely. Remember, in all our ways, we should consider others. This world is meant for you and me. A thought comes to mind from my deceased sister’s note. She left it after working in her garden. She wrote, “Happiness of the heart depends on the quality of one’s thoughts.” I added to that. And the quality of what’s taught.

CONCLUSION

Mr. Trump’s stop-and-go attitude is likened to saying, “One moment you love me, then the next you hate me.” My thoughts are the same as Mr. Trudeau’s: Freedom is not a given. We must be courageous, make sacrifices, and work hard. This is the time when standing our ground calls for endurance, which will, in turn, have to see approved conditions of fairness across the borders. Whether, Mr. Ford will dance or stand firm is yet to see.

Peace!

Store Observations: Leadership Lessons in Retail

I visited a store on Tuesday at Dundas and Yonge Streets at approximately 2:40 in the afternoon. When I was about to enter, I encountered two security guards standing at the entrance, one outside and one inside. I walked past them and was impressed. The aisles were cleaned, and items were meticulously organized.

As I walked down a couple of the aisles to pick up items, I had in thoughts before getting a cart. I got the cart and proceeded to get the other items. When I saw an employee on a ladder stocking away items, I stopped and asked where I would find headphones. I was told in aisle four. As I looked for aisle four, I saw one of the items I needed and picked it up—a wine cork opener. I looked up, saw the number, and went down the aisle. Nothing electrical was there. Instead of going back to her, I decided to look for myself.

Another employee directed me to the far end to find the item. I walked there to notice that what I was looking for was not there. I walked around and back through aisle four. I wondered why the first employee said aisle four. Could it be that she is a new employee? Did it slip her mind where electrical items were located? Did I benefit from being sent to the wrong section? Perhaps. Had I been sent to the right section, I may have left sooner without the item as my most forceful thought was being on time for the movie “Captain America” starting at 3:30 p.m.

CHANGE YOUR LIFE WITH YOUR THOUGHTS

As I walked to the checkout line, I observed another employee who left her work to show a customer an item she was looking for.

Within, I smiled at the thought entertained, and I fought.

My observation showed me three different approaches as a leader, which are the art and ability to influence and motivate people to accept and follow through with enthusiasm.

My observation also jabbed at my emotions not to confront the first employee as I recalled my brother-in-law’s note on Leadership. “People need to be inspired so they may combat fear or hopelessness. A leader who can hold the trust and confidence of people under trying and frustrating situations is regarded as one who offers unselfish support.”

Such an attitude I wished some of my past leaders had shown me–appreciation instead of constantly seeking my flaws. One of my personal stories can be found in my book Until My Dying Day.

The first employee allowed me [the customer] to see an item needed and others I may purchase, such as cleaning and other household items.
Although the second employee was seen standing while another packed away items, her approach showed her knowledge and attitude of just doing what she was paid to do.
The third employee went beyond her call of duty and took a customer to where the item was located. The customer I heard thanked her as I proceeded to the checkout line.

TIME AND UNFORESEEN CIRCUMSTANCES

Standing in the checkout line, I observed the two security guards in the store. One checked out a customer’s movement as he briefly said something to the other. In the moment of my observation, I thoughtfully noted that one of them should be outside. If something goes wrong, the one outside can apprehend the customer. I then glanced back to the section I had not too long left before spotting the headphones I was looking for.

I wanted to leave, but I stayed in the line because it was longer and closer to the movie’s start time. When my turn came to check out, the cashier scanned the items, and I paid as she bagged them.

Before the cashier was done packing for me to leave, a young man came up and put his items on the counter. Without saying a word, I looked at him. He apologized. I took the bag from the cashier, wished her a good day, and left, spotting one of the security guards outside.

AUTHENTICITY Vs. ACTING

There is a saying that the world is a stage, and we are the actors. While some of us are authentic in our actions, others are actors in what they have seen of our actions or know of our lives. Please be aware of your surroundings and those you interact with. This becomes necessary when you are confused about unexplained situations in your life [as I was.] Done for understanding the response of others from their words or actions.

ENJOYMENT HAD

I got to the movie on time to buy myself a treat, located my seat, used the restroom, and enjoyed watching Captain America in the moving seats.

Overcoming Narcissism: A Path to Personal Growth

I will start this post by quoting some verses from Proverbs 16. The verses highlight the need for inner change and emphasize how we treat others.

23. The heart of the wise one causes his mouth to show insight, and to his lips, it adds persuasiveness. Before you speak, pause. The tongue is a small member, yet it sets the emotions of others on fire with what is spoken. Let your words be like salt that gives flavor.
24. Pleasant sayings are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones. This is especially true when experiencing difficulties others cannot understand. Talking to someone whose words are comforting releases stress and brings peace to your soul.
25 There exists a way that is upright before a man. However, the ways of death are the end of it afterward. Who is there to tell a man whose mindset to go or do a sure thing should be aborted. He will not listen, choosing to gain experience, whether to live or die.
27. A good-for-nothing man is digging up what is evil. Upon his lips, there is what seems like a scorching fire. Be aware of the friends you choose. Those who keep taking you back to your past do not have your best interest at heart.
28. A man of intrigues keeps sending forth contention, and a slanderer separates those familiar with one another. Keep as far as possible from those who spread contention. They do this by talking about others and discussing what they may have said about you behind their backs. Such individuals cause separation among those who are familiar with each other.
29. A man of violence will mislead his fellow. He will certainly cause him to go in a way that is not good. To some, violence is a sport. They lack intelligence and do not know good from evil.

YES. I am talking to the person reading this text. To you in the mirror, I am asking you to make a change.

A narcissist whose addicted attitude is to torment will find every opportunity to be in your life. He or she will even find lodging in the area or building you chose to live in. They will befriend your family, friends, and business relationships and use those against you. When you recognize this, act like a medical professional they need. Be aware of the danger to themselves and, most importantly, to you. Immediately, you must cut all ties with the person. Do Not interact Or communicate With Them. Of course, it is easier to write, say, than done. Because the ones you have to deal with are his or her cohorts. However, remember that your purpose is to get the person and those he or she is controlling out of your life. Therefore, with every obstacle he or she puts in your path, maintain your focus, faith, and truths.

I never thought to associate the word with anyone I knew even with the troubles I have endured over the years. I gradually lost friends and observed the situation. With social media’s help, I came to understand the intentional game a narcissist plays. After years of moving from different areas I finally got housing within a government-run building, with my rent geared to income (RGI). What does this mean? When my income increases, so does my rent; when it falls, so does my rent. This was an advantage for me, as my job situation changed a lot. The ‘god’s are strong in their manipulation of weak minds, and so a TKO was always suffered.

ADVANTAGE NOT ALWAYS DISADVANTAGE

Over the years, I have seen staff come and go. This worried me because of the personal information that had to be shared. Privacy was no longer my own. However, survival became the reason for staying. The challenge of finding an affordable unit in the housing market overshadowed the advantage of having a lower rental cost.

One who sees to it each month that all creditors are dealt with equally. Amounts owed are fully paid, or partially; this includes my rent. The arrears for my rental unit are paid off at the end of the year. I was blessed to have my rental issue solved throughout the years, but I still received notices of balances owed. Each time, I requested my account to be updated. Each time, with the current coordinator, I am told, “A computer generates the information. I cannot make any changes.” The explanations as to how this untruth will affect my future search or request for housing. To no concern, did this affect a change in bringing my account up to date?

THE DISADVANTAGE

To live within the housing system, one’s income must be at a certain level. However, not all who live and work within the housing system see themselves staying there until death. Some seek ways to elevate themselves, thus eventually leaving the community—a good thing to do.

However, the advantage you had for some time becomes a disadvantage. Your personal life and affairs become known by the systems’ workers and the ones your narcissist has befriended.

I am one of those trying to elevate myself from mediocrity. One day, I met a young man while searching for someone to hire. He claimed he could do my social site for me. I negotiated the contract to an amount I was able and willing to pay.

I am cautious with those I allow to enter my life, knowing that the individual will have to be mentally stronger than I am to handle the games. Over the years, I have lost friendships, and some have distanced themselves from me. I did not mind because I find my own company very rewarding. I also realized that not all who call themselves friends appreciate you when you are growing up. Your growth, for some reason, makes them uncomfortable. I know people with integrity will seek truth. And those who are accountable have nothing to fear from the truth. For those two reasons, I think such ones would seek clarity by confronting me. Instead, I found that some would lose their friendship rather than confront their own insecurities.

We must trust others, but I always let people know that complete trust must be theirs. Jeremiah 17:5 even declares the seriousness of putting our trust in man. Further, Isaiah 26:3 reads, “You will safeguard the inclination that is well supported. This is done in continuous peace because it is in you that one is made to trust.” Friends, do put your trust in Him, who sees all things.

During one summer month, I communicated with the social site’s creator, attended to other businesses, made payments to different ones, and progressed with my goals. Out of nowhere, I received a call informing me that my rent for the past month had not been paid.

I was shocked. I reported this to the coordinator, who called to inform me. So, I got on my phone to check.

I knew I had made a payment, but I did not record the confirmation at the time. I was aware that I would receive a letter confirming the payment.

I wished that, as always, I had recorded the confirmation number immediately.

I could not find the letter on my computer. I also couldn’t find a payment listed on the phone. The phone was not updating correctly. I decided to go into the Bank. The receptionist approached me and asked what she could assist me with today. I explained the situation, and she showed me what to do as we looked for the payment. No payment was made. When I returned home, I called online customer service. After the explanation was given, I was informed that I had forgotten to press a button. That button would have caused the payment to be processed. Frustrated with hurtful feelings, I thanked the agent for his time and hung up. That same day I opened my mail, a letter from the head office informed me of my balance in arrears. The content almost sent the cover off the pot—so speaking—had I not been mentally strong. Immediately, I called the coordinator. I told her that I would not pay the extra cost added to the amount owed. She already knew what the balance amount was to be. Furthermore, I will not pay until my account is up to date.

STAND YOUR GROUND

Narcissists love it when you react. So, remember to respond kindly to yourself. There is so much one has to deal with these days. Paying attention to one’s own affairs is crucial to overall peace, than continuing a fight with those who thrive on conflicts, and wars.

Be kind to those who enter your lives while being balanced.

Exercise love. Stay awake. Stand firm in the faith. Carry on as men (and women); each grows mighty in all goodness. Let all your affairs take place with love.

The link below will further inform you, and also guide you on how to protect yourself. Here are 7 ways to defeat a narcissist, found on YouTube.

https://youtu.be/?HJxDk-IIIO?si=HiajH95qldkKH2io

APPRECIATE YOU ALL

Conquering Temptation During the Holidays

Be aware and mindful. Do not let the power of what’s wicked overtake you during the holiday season. Stay vigilant in the coming days ahead.

The word “Temptation” means the act of being tempted or a state of being tempted. In verse 13 of Matthew 6, Jesus speaks to his disciples about prayer. He tells them not to be brought into temptation. Instead, they should ask to be delivered from the wicked one or from what is wicked.

How can someone conquer the act or state of temptation?

For each one’s desire, the level of temptation differs. For some, a moment’s reflection on God’s word is enough. It helps them reject the desire that would cause them to fall. The Bible warns about those who rush to get rich. They will not remain innocent. They might do wrong for a piece of bread.

The person I am speaking about held a good position working at the airport. Recently, he was overcome by covetousness to take something that was not his from a passenger’s luggage. Later allowed to admit his wrongful action, he lied. He might have faced a few days off without pay if he had confessed. It could also have led to a week off without pay. The camera later revealed the truth.

He chose not to reflect on his actions during these challenging times. Jobs are hard to come by, and the cost of living is too expensive for many. Instead, he allowed the desire to take control of him. What Jeremiah 17 verse 11 says about one who acquires riches dishonestly is what he proved to be, one senseless. He has lost a weekly salary over an item that is no more than 100 dollars. This salary helped him pay his bills and afford the luxury of going places. In a moment of weakness, he lost a meal and a roof over his head.

Folks, do not wear yourself out to gain wealth. Avoid pleasing others by getting into debt for something you cannot afford. Stop and show understanding. The command of Jehovah is clean. The fear of HIM doing wrong is not only pure but also brings joy. Being content with what you have avoids many stabs on your soul. 1Timothy 6:10.

FOR SAKEN, PRIORITIES ARE THE RESULT OF FORGOTTEN PERSPECTIVES.

HO, HO, OH, Tis the season once again. The month, the echoed sentiment of Peace on earth and goodwill rings in our ears wherever we go. Some are captivated by the festive activities around them. The decorations, the lights, the music, the food, and the online and offline store fashions. They are swept away into a magical world without being conscious of it.

The holiday season undoubtedly brings joy and excitement. However, it often leads to financial strain, as many people overspend on gifts and festivities.

Set up a budget and prioritize purchases that really matter to you and your loved ones.
Write a list, check it twice, and stick to it to avoid the stress of post-holiday bills.
Check those Credit Card Rewards balances and use them on every purchase.

Focus: Practice self-control. Do not be like chaff in the win. Avoid being swayed by the pretty saleswoman or handsome salesman’s sweet approach. Their pitch will sweep you off your feet, listening to greed’s whisper; Just this last one, come on. You fall again by another’s sweet approach and hear the whisper of greed. This is the last one.

The New Year arrives. The excitement of the past month is over. For some, January hits with the sweet sounds of the blues. Hardship approaches. It engages with your emotions. You wonder how we will pay the bills accumulated during the excitement of the past month. The hangover consumes the body, and some will start borrowing to make ends meet. Stress then knocks at your body’s frame to get those bills paid. Bills you cannot repay, so you keep avoiding and screening your calls. As a result, your body starts to experience all sorts of pain in areas you never thought it would be.

Logic eventually steps in to ease the pain. It advises you to use the lower interest rate card. This helps pay off the ones with higher interest. The logic was sound until there was insufficient money from your monthly paycheck. With the lower interest rate card’s balance adding up, so does the interest to be paid off; what are you to do? Greed approaches logic. It urges logic to forget stress and think of self. It suggests declaring bankruptcy or telling creditors you cannot pay them and to feel free to do as they please.

Now overwhelmed by bills, you lack the finances to pay, and your mind lacks the peace it needs. Consequently, you are unable to be compassionate towards all men. Dismissing your actions, had your perspective been in order, your priorities would not have been forsaken.

I know it has been a while since I wrote to my readers. I hope this playful piece finds everyone in good health. May my message reach everyone who is enjoying a happy and safe holiday to be mindful of satisfying desires they can’t afford. Peace and good tidings to you all!

Discovering Purpose in Trivial Annoyances: A Journey of Growth and Learning

GROWTH stops when we die; before that day comes, and no one knows of their day, cherish each new day. Observe the people, the animals, and the things around you. For each, whether that be individuals we encounter, an animal or an annoying little bug or fly that seems to either like the warmth it receives from being around you or is just there to send a negative thought of you to others you encounter or you of them. Appreciate, yes, appreciate its annoyance. By exercising patience, you can capture the thought of the other’s perception of you.

FOR yesterday is gone; it was your history. Tomorrow is your future, one you may or not wake to see. But today is your present. So, let all your hands, thoughts, and whole being allow you to express yourself. Ecclesiastes 9:10.

WE all have much to be thankful for today and in the coming future as knowledge has opened the door that, once entered, enables you to achieve inner strength that moves you to heal, to be creative, and to destroy that which kept you in pain and hamper your achievement. We will never be rid of the fools who have never felt pain to know the wisdom acquired from healing through pain. A fool’s joy comes from their ignorance of not knowing.

RECENTLY, I had a little annoyance, and I recalled a day when I was at the bank speaking to a Teller who kept passing her hand over her face. I kept observing her, as I knew that the little annoyance I had been experiencing before walking into the bank had to be in the mix. So I asked, “Is my breath smelling?”

“No,” she said. “It’s a fruit fly.”

“Oh,” I responded, “I thought it was me.” I continued to inform her of my problem with being unable to see updates of my statements on the phone and that I would like to speak to a manager.

THE essence of this story is to underscore the profound lessons that patience and keen observation of our surroundings can teach us about the people we encounter.

FRUIT flies usually are around where fruits are. If you are an unbeliever, buy yourself some fruits, even wash them before putting them in a container, and you will see, in a few days, as you go in and out of your home, a fruit fly will find its way in. However, for further understanding, my next-door neighbor has a garden on his veranda, so tiny flies will sometimes be in my home. Recently, it was as if the nursery rhyme tells of Mary, who had a little lamb, and wherever she goes, it is sure to follow. So, when I asked the bank teller if it was my breath, her response was, “No.” I knew she was being truthful, for I was keenly observing her actions and facial expressions, one of which showed a friendly simile as we spoke.

YES, even the most trivial annoyances can be profound teachers when approached with an open mind. Everything in this world has a purpose and a lesson to offer. Just open your mind to receive these teachings.

AS mentioned earlier, growth stops when we die. Before you do, remember we are all here to learn from each other as God intended.

THIS brings me back to the word growth; as you, the reader, read my memoir Until My Dying Day, be sure to notice my growth through my writing. After reading my book or in between reading, I will encourage you to listen to a video entitled The Mind—This will make you understand how things work. Some things taught me that I am fortunate to have learned from experience. The video teaches the listener about the mind and how it works, and some people who have this knowledge can and do use it in a manner that can destroy others. https://www.youtu.b/12qz-3uvFJK?si=RHrmOCUDpRqnSSTCmn

THANK YOU all for your attention. I hope I was able to shine some light on your path. Remember to open your mind to learn. Life is to enjoy, learn from others as we grow, and admire all things, whether on earth or in the heavens.

For further reading: 2 Peter: 1:6

Achieving Riches Through Effort: Lessons from Experience and Faith

Let your desire for riches be balanced. God blesses the one who, through his or her own efforts, achieves.

Experience is one of man’s best teachers that gives understanding. Without it, one can only put faith in the counsel of others who have gone through the (fire) turmoil to acquire the understanding they hold. The Bible advises us to listen to the discipline of a father and pay attention to know understanding; we need to do that, to listen and to have trust, then protect our life. It is a fool who does not believe that every house is constructed by someone who goes full speed ahead in his uneducated state and destroys himself and the lives of others.

Jehovah sees and hears from the reports of his angels and, as a merciful God, acts in ways that correct a man and humble him. Those who have had such experience from youth is a witness of that fact.

Therefore, I speak from experience that like a seed planted by the owner of a garden, in this case, Jehovah’s knowledge, as we grow with the teachings instilled in us from youth that protect us. From the actions of some, their wicked deeds can become like the heat from the sun that scorches and soon destroys. And like that of the seed that sprouts and begins to grow that soon withers and dies, so it is with humans not strong enough to fight back, give up on living. However, the owner of the garden is able to save some plants through his care, liken to our Heavenly Father, who does the same.

When Jehovah stated: your thoughts are not my thoughts, nor your ways my ways. We must believe and exercise faith in those words. For the intentions of the wicked ones, He is able to counteract by his servant’s adherence to His counsel. I stand accused by some, although I am innocent. Abandoned by others due to the wicked ones slander of me. The pain endured no one knows unless spoken. Therefore, my hope is that through my written words, some will become wise to act in kindness.

Without a doubt, He will not allow the one faithful to be tempted beyond what they are able to handle. He assures us of this in 1 Corinthians 10:13.

What you think you become. Surround yourself with people who will inspire, encourage, and push you to be the best you can be. Don’t give up on yourself. Ignore the foolish talk of those impotent in death. Remember, through our struggles, we are being refined. Appreciate each one’s role in your life, even when it hurts. Look deep within your soul to find yourself, your purpose, and your goals if you have set some that are yet to be achieved. No matter your age, we have yet to see more of God’s work here on this earth, for He is not slow respecting His promises as some people consider slowness of a world where there will be no death or mourning.

It Takes Two. Those who stand by you truly encourage you to go on in times of despair. Do not give up; exercise faith in our Creator, for He will never leave.